But what about play time? Most of us would play all day if we could, so we’re really appreciative of any dedicated play time you can give us. Make a point to schedule play time with your cat for the same time every day – that way he or she will have something to look forward to while you’re off bringing home the bacon!

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Attach the string to the wire, the feather to the other end of the string and make it dance in front of your cat. Then pull the feather around the room until he catches it.

Another idea is to use a sack or medium cardboard box. Put some light material, like a sheet over it, leaving enough space for your cat to slink under it into the box. Tap on the closed end of the sack or box and then the side, then the back again. Do this for awhile and your cat will be tuckered out from trying to catch the sound.

An old sock that smells like you works wonders, too. Add catnip and tie it off – your cat gets two smells in one.

If you cat IS finicky, try out each of the types of toys – you’re sure to pique his interest with one of them.

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Toys that require your interaction with your cat are great for bonding. Feathers on the end of a string on a pole is a great toy as is a laser toy. Treat balls also are fun. Playing also keeps your cat’s hunting skills in shape in case he needs to get that annoying fly.

Kelly is a dog columnist and pet writer. She lives in the Boston-area with her three pit bulls and one neurotic cat.

Why does this simple herb have such a hold on cats? There is a chemical in catnip that mimics the effects of a pheromone. It is nontoxic to cats and has some good uses – it can act as a stimulant and encourage activity, it can be used in training, and, for some cats, it actually mellows them out.

Of course, if your cat is climbing the walls or trying to fly, you might want to cut back for awhile.

For those of us who like to hit up a little catnip every now and then (and keep in mind that’s only about 60% of us), we like it fresh. So if you’ve got a bag of old stuff in the closet that’s been there for several months… toss it and buy some new stuff. Such an action will be highly appreciated.

So my human buddy will sometimes take one and attach it to a string and then tie it to a doorknob, so that I can lie on my back underneath and bat the heck out of it. Purrty fun!

Just make sure that you don’t tie up anything that has any closed loops or circles of fabric that you can get stuck in. Stick to soft fabric balls or little stuffed animal thingies.

OK! Can’t stick around! Lots of playing to do – see ya!

Cats love to chase the plastic caps from bottled water – a free toy! And many cats will play fetch with you. Mine will chase a balled up piece of paper and bring it back. Took a while for him to get the idea, but once he did, his understanding of “fetch” is better than the dog’s.

A really rough car mat is a great thing to have around. Cats love to tear them up. Ours would make a two room detour – including a trip over the forbidden rug – to get to the mat.